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Thursday, July 22, 2010

The End or The Beginning, what matters more??

Me and Mrunal were having a cup of coffee day before evening and it was the first time in years that we were actually talking. The last time we spoke like “girl-friends” do must be some 16-17 years back, if I’m not wrong. We were just talking about random stuff when we started talking about relationships. To be more precise, “the end” of such relations.

This can have various effects depending on the kind of person you are. But what you must remember is that what has ended has ended. There is nothing you or anybody else can do about it. There are a few things you should be sure and aware of. Some of them being that you were truthful. That you spoke and believed in truth…not yours, not his/hers.. but just plain simple truth. You did not intentionally hurt anyone. You did not give reasons (whatsoever they may be) and you spoke whatever you should have and not what you wanted to.

Every relation is special to us in some way or the other. But if it ends, so what?? The end of something is the beginning of something new. And that something new is what you can decide. Be sure of what you want and what you are. Know your worth. You cannot cheat yourself. You know what you deserve, wait for it. Don’t let haste compel you to wrong decisions.

Erase things, people and memories you don’t want. If you want to, you can.

Believe in yourself.

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